Forgiven her? Then why is this necessary? She is no longer with us, so the turmoil you felt the need to share months after she is no longer here says more about you than it does about her. Don't condemn her as if her "legacy" is to make people around her suffer. Work on that forgiveness with a therapist.

I didn’t wait to share. I told everyone I knew when it happened. It’s my right to share what happened. It’s the truth. Marybeth was well aware of what she did. And there’s ample evidence to back me up. You’re making assumptions and victim-blaming. Forgiving doesn’t mean disregarding the truth. It doesn’t mean liking what happened to me. Ask yourself why you’re defending an abuser. I’m not at fault. Marybeth is responsible. Enablers like you make abuse possible. Shame on you.